Mindfulness-based Virtual

Culturally Sensitive Counseling

for

Children of immigrants, Transracial adoptees & Cross-cultural individuals

in Oregon, Washington, and Illinois

 
 
 
Image of teapot and boho coasters with leaves. We offer culturally sensitive counseling and therapy for children of immigrants who are facing their own set of unique challenges.

Navigating the challenge of identity, culture, and family, so you can lift the weight and begin to feel vibrant in who you are.

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Young Asian American woman smiling happily. Are you struggling to find cultural balance in your life? Therapy for children of immigrants in Oregon can help you balance the old with the new while maintaining your own identity!
 

Culturally Sensitive Counseling

Children of Immigrants

You are capable. Your family immigrated to the U.S from another culture, and they have worked hard in building a life here. You care deeply about your family at the same time, you get on each other’s nerves. Recently something happened that added to your already full plate, and it made things worse. Often, the struggles of having immigrant parents are real.

It feels like you are being pulled in opposite directions between your family’s expectations and what you truly want. You feel obligated to do the right thing with your family while neglecting your own wants and happiness. You found yourself saying that is not fair, but when you don’t do it, you feel worse. You feel anxious and guilty and sometimes, it feels like you are all alone.

International Adoptees

Or perhaps you are an international adoptee. You had to learn to navigate the journey of your identity by yourself. You feel different from others around you, and you don’t know who to turn to, as you are worried that they are going to judge you. As an adult now, you often experience fear of trusting people. Sometimes it feels like you don’t know where you belong. Somehow, you feel that you are not enough.

With mindfulness-based relational therapy, I will help you attune to yourself and make sense of your unique roots so that you can begin to gain a sense of clarity and feel more at ease with yourself and your relationship with your family

 

Hello, I am May.

I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and I specialize in working with children of immigrants, transracial adoptees, and cross-cultural individuals.

Through individual therapy, I will help you manage your stress, understand your identity and reconcile the intergenerational/ intercultural hurt so that you can enjoy life with more ease and happiness.

 

Spark Relational Counseling’s
Cross-Cultural Counseling Approach

At Spark Relational Counseling, we believe the fundamentals of healing rest most importantly on our relationship. With that in mind, when working with me, we prioritize fostering a welcoming, trustworthy space. From this safe space, we begin to work on ourselves.

The Process

After inviting you to talk about what brings you in and what you hope to accomplish during our time together, we will take a look at some of the events/things in your life that brings you pain and discomfort. During this process, I will help you slow down and begin to attend to yourself. This includes me guiding you to get in touch with your feelings and feeling them in a way that feels good. You might discover doubts, questions, or ungrieved losses and I will be a warm companion, along the way as your story unfolds and feelings emerge.

Engaging With a Culturally Sensitive Therapist

In addition to being an empathetic listener, I also engage myself actively in the process. This looks like me teaching you relational skills to help you communicate what matters to you in a more effective way, and provide some psychoeducation around cross-cultural identity to help you gain insights into your experiences. Other than providing teaching and education, we will also become curious about how you show up during a family conflict and make sense of its roots. This includes us taking a closer look at a potential belief of yours, or more importantly, helping you navigate some of the old, painful experiences in the past that are caused by generational and or cultural differences.

Goals for Culturally Sensitive Counseling

Together, we walk on the path to a long-lasting change by empowering you to define your own unique story as a cross-cultural individual and sparking a real lived healing experience different from what you felt in the past so that you can feel more confident with who you are and begin to build meaningful and authentic connections with people you love.

 
Baskets representing diverse cultural backgrounds. You don't have to lose sight of your past cultural identity to create a unique future for yourself. Therapy for the children of  immigrants in Illinoiscan help you find balance.
 
  • Step 1.

    Fill out the contact form and choose a good call-back time.

  • Step 2.

    Hear back from us within 24-48 hours (except for weekends and holidays).

  • Step 3.

    Begin finding fulfillment and ease again.

 Frequently Asked Questions

 
  • Perhaps you have been through many therapy websites and wave through quite a few profiles. Searching for a therapist can be a complicated process. I honor and understand the frustration, hope, and worry in starting your therapy work. Therefore, I offer a free 15 mins phone consultation to help discuss your needs and answer any questions you may have. My hope is by the end of the call, you will have a better sense of the service I provide and make a more informed decision. 

  • Based on how the current insurance system is set up, in order to use your in-network insurance benefits, the insurance company requires me to give you a mental illness diagnosis. This diagnosis becomes part of your permanent medical record and may negatively impact your future life choices ( adoption, life insurance, employment, etc.). In addition, therapy under an in-network insurance panel is not confidential. Insurance companies and managed care panels essentially become another person in your treatment, as they require reports about our meetings to authorize sessions. They also have the power to decide how many sessions you will receive. I believe that those crucial decisions should be made between you and your therapist, not a stranger from the insurance office.

    For these concerns on in-network insurances benefits, I choose to accept only out-of-network benefits for insurances purposes. If you would like to use your insurance, I will assist by providing you with a "superbill" (An itemized receipt) for you to take advantage of any out-of-network benefits that your plan offers. Depending on your plan, your insurance company may reimburse your session cost up to a percentage. Please note that a diagnosis is still required, but we will have confidentiality and control over your course of treatment.

  • The timeline largely depends on the fluctuation of your therapist's schedule. Usually, sessions are available to be scheduled as soon as 5-7 days from the initial contact. If you are ready now, click here to skip the wait and request a session.  

  • If this is your first time going to therapy, I imagine it may be both exciting and a bit nerve-wracking. I know what that feeling feels like, and congratulations on taking this crucial first step. To help you better prepare, I found this article provides some helpful information about what will happen during our first session. 

    Before arriving for your first appointment, it could also be helpful to take a moment and think about what you would like to accomplish through therapy. How have you been feeling lately? How would you like to feel? You do not have to feel obligated to tell your therapist "everything" during your first session. Instead, it is simply an opportunity to share enough and check-in with yourself on how you feel sitting with your therapist. It may also be helpful to think about what questions you might have for your therapist during your first session. You will know that a therapist is a good fit for you when you feel at ease, heard, and confident in their ability to help you during your first session.  

For a complete list of FAQs, including rates and our COVID practice, Please visit our FAQs section.

 

Start the journey of finding peace with who you are now.

Other mental health services offered at Spark Relational Counseling.

Culturally sensitive therapy can be a valuable resource for your need. In addition, we understand your needs for support don’t usually fit into one box. At Spark Relational Counseling, we offer a variety of mental health services. We provide online therapy for anxiety in Washington, Oregon and Illinois. For individuals with struggles in anxiety, we offer anxiety treatment at our Portland anxiety clinic. For professionals, working women with concerns around dating and intimacy, we offer individual therapy for loneliness (dating therapy, for example) that helps you feel more confident in building a strong romantic relationship. Additionally, for those in a relationship. we specialize in couples therapy and marriage counseling and premarital counseling. If you are a small business owner, we offer therapy for entrepreneurs to help you navigate the ups and downs of owning a business. Whatever your mental health needs may be, we are here to help.